Strength in one person

We are so fragile.
Our feelings and promises are fragile as well.
One word can trip an emotional chord.
One action can bring us out of pitch.

Why is it that people don't have any regard for the feelings of others when they too know how it hurts?

We keep hurting ourselves. Foolish people.
We keep forgeting time and time again what is important.

Our bonds shouldn't be broken by meaningless differences.
But what are our bonds made of?

To me there is no need for concrete reason. The conviction in my heart is in itself enough.

Therefore dear friend, remember that sometimes people hurt each other not on purpose. We need to forgive and move on right?
Sometimes the world gets tough and weigh us down. So for a little while its alright to stay down and cry.
Sometimes we get so lonely and whenever we try to get someone to listen they are too busy with their lives to even bother.
Sometimes, I believe that we are truly alone. Not in the sense that we dont have companionship but in the sense of life.

I believe that a person's strength is not measured on how he/she acts when in a group but how she/he acts alone.
Many people can be strong when they have people who support them, but how if we are left alone?
I believe it takes more strength to stand up while you are alone.
So my dear dear friend, be strong. You can crumble and cry but at the end be strong.
I can only lend an ear since I am so far away.
The challenges you face may be heavy, or even too heavy for you, but God has given it to you in order to test your strength. Maybe you call yourself unlucky, but I think you are given a chance to prove your worth.
Not to the world, not to the eyes of others, but to yourself and to Him.

I went to the mosque today and I want to tell you what I thought when I was there.
It doesn't matter how others view you. All it matters is how He view you and how you view yourself.

So don't be put down by the cruelty of others. Turn it into your strength and take it as a reminder. So that when you see others suffer how you have suffered you will lend a hand knowing how painful it was.

People always notice their own suffering before others. They notice their inconvinience before the inconvinience of others.
We rarely notice the efforts of others.

I guess your boss is just unkind. Accept her traits and accept her actions, but don't let it bring you down. Remember, even though words hurt, they are in the end just words.
I from time to time remember the cruel words said by others to me, but I no longer resent them for it.
If you love someone then tell him. I hate to see you so confused because of him.

If you are sick and no one is there to care for you, please care for yourself. Your health is important, to you and to others. So cherish yourself more.

I'm ending this post with prayers that you get well and that let God guide you in your life.

Please be well dear friend.

~owari